The next several days I will be spending time with my family. It’s great to have some time to get away and just focus on Stephanie and the kids. It will be non-stop activity during the day and cards and movies at night. We are going to have a blast.
However, getting away with the kids hasnt’ always been a blast. I can remember when we would go on vacation with our oldest three. Sometimes it just wasn’t worth it. One time we turned down a trip to the beach because it made us tired just thinking about all that we would have to do. You see, our oldest three are 30 months apart. Virginia was born and then 17 months later we had Marty Jr, and then 13 months later we had Masey. I don’t know how it happened. It just did!
When you get tiny kids out of their child proof environment and put them somewhere else, it seems like you spend all of your time keeping them safe. The kids get off their schedule and then they get cranky. No one has a good time. It becomes a test of endurance until you get to go home and put everyone back in their normal routine.
Now, with three teenagers and a 7 year old, life is different. We try to get the kids out of bed in time for a sandwich. They ride bikes on busy streets. They play basketball and tennis. They ride waves in the ocean. They go to the bathroom by themselves. They feed themselves. If they spill something, they have to clean it up (atleast in theory). I just sit back and direct the flow of events. It’s great! The only thing that gives me reason to pause is that every now and then Stephanie says, “I wish we had another baby.”